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Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Was reading dont be that girl..
After reading a few pages..
Juz a few pages..
FARK!
god dammit..

Im the 'Yes Girl'
first chapt n its me..

quote: Your people-pleasing ways have gotten completely out of hand. Being agreeable is all well and good, until you start losing sight of what you really want. You regularly put the needs and desires of others ahead of yourself. While you may thing this is winning you the love you want, the truth is that you're letting people take you for granted. Remember, if you cant appreciate yourself and put yourself first, no one else will either.

OUCH?

Thr's more..
Being perfect has a price. Unfortunately, it's the people who try the hardest to please others that end up having to pay it.
Living up to the expectation of others instead of setting your own priorities causes resentment to build up. No matter how much respect you may get from others, it cannot make up for the respect you fail to extend yourself everytime you overlook your own needs to make someone else happy.

So much more.. N im so lazy to cont..
I had enough of the negative part..
LOL!

The good 1's..
Yes girls have a lot of wonderful, desirable qualities.

Strive for perfection;
When you do something you want to do it right. you hold yourself up to a high standard and will go to great length to achieve success.

Considerate of others;
Your ability to put others ahead of yourself means that you are intensely tuned in to the moods and need of other people.This is an aazing quality that will serve you better once you learn to tune in to yourself as well..

Nurturing;
The desire to take care of other people and make them feel good is an enviable trait.While caretaking likely comes naturally to you, do not underestimate this wonderful quality. You are a nice person, so dont condenmn yourself for it..

Helpful;
If a friend is in need is a friend in deed, you are a real friend. You might not be charming people with your elusive, hard-to-get-ways, but you're defianitely someone to rely on when the going gets tough..

Hmm..
R u a Yes Girl too?
Or, R u...
Agenda girl, obsessed with getting married, having kids, Meet the right guy..

Drama queen, overly emotional, "follow ur heart characteristics?

Bitter girl, holds grudges. Been hurt before and is making sure it wouldnt happens again. Taking the idea of best defense is a good offense way too far, alienates others with her behavior wherever she goes.

Insecure girl, painfully self-conscious. Unsure of her own looks, intelligence or her sense of humour and almost everything bout her own self.

Desperate girl, going bout doing everything to get attention.

Working girl, Using excuses of being too bz wif her job, N doesnt needs r/s wif anything.

Lost Girl, always lost, A real mess up person, Often feeling miserable and confused..

Hopefully u're not all..
Or those mention above..
Cuz tis book is called..
DONT BE THAT GIRL..
LOL?
I believed im some of the above besides the 'Yes girl'..
However, you are who you are..
Juz that I like to borrow self help books to improve myself..
I supposed things can be nurtured,
If you're not good on the outside, god's gift..
Be good on the inside..
Your choice..
Hmm..
Alrites.. that's all folks..
sayonara~

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